There goes the bride! The bizarre Romanian custom of staging mock kidnappings at weddings


There goes the bride! The bizarre Romanian custom of staging mock kidnappings at weddings

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06:51 GMT, 4 September 2012

A white limousine screeches to a halt and a bride, resplendent in frothy gown and veil, is hauled outside by her abductors.

It's one of Romania's more colorful customs: bride-napping.

And the tradition of snatching the bride from under the nose of groom and guests with the wedding party in full swing is getting bigger, brasher and an increasingly common sight in the Romanian capital, the Balkans' undisputed party town.

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Romanian bride poses with mock kidnappers

Colorful custom: A Romanian bride poses with her mock kidnappers in Bucharest

Every Saturday night, brides from Bucharest and beyond are dragged away in a mock abduction by friends and driven to a top tourist spot where they are 'held hostage' – all the while pouting, dancing and striking provocative poses for the cameras.

The ransom: a few bottles of whisky or perhaps something more romantic, like a public declaration of love from the abandoned groom.

The kidnappers negotiate by phone, working out the details of the payoff. It's all harmless theatrics meant to add a whiff of risque fun to the nuptials.

Romanian bride poses with mock kidnappers

Held to ransom: A bride is returned un exchange for a few bottles of whisky or perhaps something more romantic, like a public declaration of love from the abandoned groom

Romanian bride poses with mock kidnappers

Wedding game: The unlikely tradition is all harmless theatrics, meant to add a whiff of risque fun to the nuptials

Mock abductions of brides are part of
marriage ceremonies across the former Soviet Union.

In some countries,
guests lock up a bride or have her hide in a backroom during
celebrations, demanding that the bridegroom delivers a 'ransom' – like
singing a song, dancing or sometimes paying real money.

In Romania, the custom took off a few years ago when a top football player rented Bucharest's Arch of Triumph, a major monument modeled after its iconic namesake in Paris, and proposed there to his girlfriend.

a guest struggles to help a Romanian bride off his shoulders

a Romanian bride holds toy weapons in the air at the Triumph Arch in Bucharest, Romania

Regional custom: Mock abductions of brides are part of marriage ceremonies across the former Soviet Union

a Romanian bride dances on a car at the Triumph Arch in Bucharest, Romania

a Romanian bride dances on a car at the Triumph Arch in Bucharest, Romania

There was no kidnapping involved but
the scene stuck in the popular imagination as a symbol of marriage – and
soon the monument became a sort of midnight mecca for bride-napping.

This past Saturday, about 20 brides were
held hostage at the Arch of Triumph, which was built in 1922 to honor
Romanian soldiers who died during World War I and to celebrate the
reunification of Transylvania with the rest of Romania.

One bride was driven in from her
wedding in a town an hour east of Bucharest with a gaggle of guests in
tow.

Romanian brides pose for pictures under the Triumph Arch in Bucharest, Romania

Symbol of love: The custom took off after a top football player rented Bucharest's Arch of Triumph, a major monument modeled after its iconic namesake in Paris, and proposed there to his girlfriend

Romanian brides pose for pictures under the Triumph Arch in Bucharest, Romania

Blind eye: Partying under the monument is technically illegal because it's a historic landmark

Romanian brides pose for pictures under the Triumph Arch in Bucharest, Romania

Popular game: This past Saturday, about 20 brides were 'held hostage' at the Arch of Triumph

Another grabbed the toy machine gun of her kidnappers, dressed up
as Taliban, and pretending to use it in front of the monument.

a Romanian bride holds toy weapons at the Triumph Arch in Bucharest, Romania

Role play: A Romanian bride holds a toy weapon at the Triumph Arch

Authorities turn a blind eye to the
partying under the monument, technically illegal because it's a historic
landmark.

Motorists cruise around the square honking, waving and
cheering.

The outdoor party is one way for Romanians, frustrated with
austerity measures and feuding politicians, to let off steam.

One bride, 25-year-old Alisar Dragne, says her abduction was scripted from start to finish.

'Everything was staged and ready in my case. The limousine was waiting for me in front of the restaurant, I was given the “leave” signal by my friends and together we came here to have some fun,' she said. 'Now everyone's thinking what ransom to ask the groom.'

George Neascu, a Roma musician, who plays at the monument every week for small change, said the bride-stealing custom is as old as living memory.

'All sorts of people come here,' said Neascu, 'both those who have lots of money and those who have less.'

VIDEO: Brides are abducted on their big day – and the groom has to pay ransom!

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