'I'm never speaking to her again. I'm over her': TOWIE's Arg hits back as Lucy Mecklenburgh defends his ex Lydia Bright
08:45 GMT, 30 April 2012
James 'Arg' Argent came to blows with Lucy Mecklenburgh over his relationship with ex Lydia Bright in a tense showdown on last night's episode of The Only Way Is Essex.
Lucy confronted Arg during a night out after becoming upset at the fact that Lydia had stayed in for fear of bumping into him.
Speaking to her boyfriend Mario Falcone, Lucy said: 'I'm not
getting involved but I'm getting upset. Lydia's not coming out because
she doesn't want to see him. I hate seeing her treated like this.'
Confrontation: Lucy Mecklenburgh made her feelings plain to Arg at the end of tonight's episode of TOWIE, when she accused him of mistreating ex Lydia
In the previous episode, Lydia had told Lucy she's been sent abusive texts from Arg – who she split from in January – after he discovered she had moved on by sleeping with a new man.
She then walked over to Arg, who asked 'What's up'
Lucy replied: 'You've upset me Arg. I've seen the texts on Lydia's phone.'
Arg replied: 'But have you seen the messages she sent me After she slept with someone who I knew, who I thought was a friend'
Made her case: Lucy said that Lydia didn't deserve to be texted nasty things, while Arg made the point that Lydia had cheated on him with one of his friends
Lucy answered: 'I've seen all the messages Arg, but you can't call Lydia a sl*t, cos she's not like that.'
she is like that, because she did it,' replied Arg. 'I won't talk to
Lydia like that again because I'm never talking to her again. I'm over
Mario then went over to have a word with Arg, and told
him: 'The only thing you've done wrong in my opinion is call Lydia a
sl*t, cos you don't call girls sl**s.'
Upset: Lucy said that she hated the fact that Lydia had stayed in to avoid bumping into Arg
Got involved: After Lucy broke down in tears, Mario Falcone had a chat with Arg, and told him that the only thing he felt Arg had done wrong was to call Lydia a 'slut'
During a heart to heart with Joey
Essex earlier in the program Arg explained: 'We've stayed well clear of
each other with everything that's happened, sleeping with someone I
'I never thought that she was that sort of girl, she always made out she was different from other girls, but she's not.
'I would never do anything like that because I don't want her to find out, and I wouldn't want to hurt her.'
Distressed: An emotional Lydia told her mother Debbie Douglas about the abusive messages she had received from Arg
Hurt: Arg confided in both Gemma Collins and Joey Essex earlier in the episode, saying how affected he was by Lydia's betrayal
Lydia meanwhile poured her heart out
to her mother Debbie Douglas, saying: 'I think he really didn't want me there,
but I wanted to be there to support the girls, and he's made it out to
be a huge problem.
'I'll show you some of the texts they're very horrible and very disrespectful.'
After looking at the texts, Debbie answered tearfully: 'You're not a sl*g, you're not a sl*t and you don't sleep around.'
Date prep: Sam Faiers chatted with her sister Billie about her expectations for her and Joey's 'first date'
'What you mustn't do is react to him. When he texts you nasty messages – and they are nasty messages, it upsets me to read them- you have to take control and delete them.
'You have to believe that you're number one.'
'But when James is involved I don't feel in control, I feel all faint,' said Lydia.
Surprise! Joey hired a helicopter to take Sam on a tour of Essex
Did the trick Despite initially saying that she was scared of heights Sam appeared to enjoy the flight
On a happier note Joey Essex took his ex-girlfriend Sam Faiers on a romantic 'first date', hiring a helicopter to take them for a tour over Essex.
He then hired out a restaurant for the pair, and treated Sam to her favourite party sausages.
Joey then asked Sam: 'Where do we go from here'
Sam replied: 'I dunno, what do you wanna do Have a little kiss'
Joey said: Yeah come over here,' and the pair embraced.
Ended with a kiss: Joey hired out an entire restaurant for the date, and the pair embraced after the meal