She"s Miss Fancy Pants: After the wrath of the mother-in-law, now the fury of the bride-to-be"s father


She"s Miss Fancy Pants: After the wrath of the mother-in-law, now the fury of the bride-to-be"s father

She”s Miss Fancy Pants: After the wrath of the mother-in-law, now the fury of the bride-to-be”s father

1:32 AM on 1st July 2011

Alan Withers, father of Heidi Withers stands outside his home in Ledbury, Gloucestershire today Carolyn Bourne ( holding plant) lleaving The Horticultural Trades Association plant show at Stoneleigh Park, Coventry 29 June 2011

Family-to-be at war: Alan Withers (left) has said his family call Carolyn Bourne (right) “Miss Fancy-Pants” and say they do not like her “snotty” attitude saying “she thought she was better than us”

Happier times: Heidi Withers and her fiancee Freddie Bourne are reeling after the venomous message sent by Mrs Bourne bemoaning Heidi

Happier times: Heidi Withers and her fiancee Freddie Bourne are reeling after the venomous message sent by Mrs Bourne bemoaning Heidi”s manners

Confused: Heidi Withers (pictured) still wants to marry Freddie Bourne despite his step-mother

Confused: Heidi Withers (pictured) still wants to marry Freddie Bourne despite his step-mother”s abuse towards her

Etiquette guide: Renowned flower arranger Carolyn Bourne, right, gave her future daughter-in-law a stern dressing down via e-mail. She is pictured here at a plant show in Coventry with her husband Edward

Etiquette guide: Renowned flower arranger Carolyn Bourne, right, gave her future daughter-in-law a stern dressing down via e-mail. She is pictured here at a plant show in Coventry with her husband Edward

Feuding families

Enlarge Mrs Bourne, 60, sent the e-mail to after she was less than impressed with her etiquette when she visited her Devon home in April

Mrs Bourne, 60, sent the e-mail to after she was less than impressed with her etiquette when she visited her Devon home in April

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