Drop a dress size… and a few friends: How weight loss jealousy wrecks women”s friendships
Women whose New Year resolution is to shed a few pounds should beware – they could find they shed a few friends as well.
Research suggests that those who successfully drop a dress size make others so envious that it could ruin personal relationships.
A third of women admit to being secretly jealous of friends who lose weight – with a sixth actively wishing their friends were fatter than them.
A third of women admit to being jealous of friends who lose weight with a sixth actively wishing their friends were fatter than them
And more than a fifth of those surveyed said they were generally happier in life when they were slimmer than their friends.
The research suggests that even if we say we want the best for our friends, many of us simply cannot help feeling resentful.
And in some cases, the envy is so strong that we go out of our way to encourage our friends to look worse than us.
One in ten respondents admitted they will tell their friends they look slim when they do not, perhaps to discourage them from dieting.
At times the envy is so bad some women actively encourage their friends to look worse than us
And of those aged 16 and 17, a third said they often ‘tag’ friends in unflattering photos on Facebook.
Krishna Soma, chief pharmacist at Chemist Direct, said: ‘Putting aesthetics aide, people should consider the health implications of excessive fat consumption.
‘While your successful weight loss may remind others of their own insecurities, remember how much healthier and happier you are.
‘People often try to resist change, so try soothing the anxieties of friends and family, as they probably don’t even realise their own negative reactions.’
The survey of 10,000 adults, carried out by weight-loss treatment BioAPP, also showed that most women, 93 per cent, do not think they would have more friends if they were slimmer.
Shockingly, more than 40 per cent of 16- to 17-year-olds said they have been on a diet to avoid being seen as the ‘fat friend’.
Researchers also found many slimmers were being put under pressure to eat more by friends and family.
Two thirds of British adults with a waistband of 38 inches or above say they regularly fall off the ‘diet wagon’ because of pressure from loved ones. A third said they were actively encouraged to eat second helpings of ‘bad’ foods while they are trying to lose weight.
More than 15 per cent of people in this size category even accuse their family and friends of serving them larger food portions on purpose.